We’ve nailed down the timeline, picked the perfect sunset spot for portraits, and the "Full Story" collection is ready to go. But as your wedding photographer, I’m looking for more than just a schedule. I’m looking for the heartbeat of your day.


Because my goal is to capture your day with a "true-to-life" feel, the more I know about the people and the "why" behind your details, the better I can serve you. Here are five things I’d love for you to share with me before the big day:


1. The "VIPs" and the Nuances

Every family has its own unique dynamic. Whether it’s a delicate situation with divorced parents, a beloved grandparent who needs a chair during family formals, or a "found family" member who isn't on the official list but is vital to your story—let me know. My background in counseling means I prioritize your comfort and peace; knowing these details helps me navigate family portraits with grace and efficiency.


2. The "Hidden" Sentimental Details

Is that lace around your bouquet from your mother’s gown? Is the watch you’re wearing a gift from a mentor? Sometimes the most beautiful stories are in the smallest details. If something has a history, tell me so I can give it the spotlight it deserves.


3. Your "Good Side" (We all have one!)

If you have a specific insecurity or a side of your face you prefer, tell me! My job is to make you feel like the best version of yourself. When you’re confident, it shows in the photos.


4. The Surprise Moments

Are you planning a secret choreographed dance? A surprise gift delivery? A "first look" with your dog? I love a good surprise, but I need to be in on the secret to make sure I’m in the right place at the right time with the right lens!


5. What You’re Most Nervous About

Whether it’s the weather, being the center of attention, or a tight transition between the ceremony and reception—share it with me. I’m not just there to take photos; I’m there to be a calming presence and a problem-solver.